Importance of Family Values ATHULKRISHNA R URK20FS1085.
Living in In dia, we all know no matter wherever you are, whenever one interacts with you the first question one asks is about family. It is in our culture and tradition that is believed that you carry your family name and values everywhere..
F amily truly gives us an identity in the society and the world we live in..
Whenever one achieves success in life an d does a good deed, the first remark is he/she must be from a good family or he/she is so well brought up by their families..
That is the reason the family values are very highly regarded and rightly so. Whether a child becomes a responsible adult or an irresponsible adult, depends on the values they grew up with..
The chil dren will adapt and learn not what you say but what you do. The children see the way the elders of the family behave with each other and learn what is important based on their actions..
And arguments or disagreements within the family should also be handled in a mature manner without humiliating and behaving condescendingly to anyone..
It is what one sees in a family, they emulate even outsi de the daily dynamics in other relationships. There is a family outside of blood relations as well, the ones we choose..
Our frien ds who become family also teach and add a great deal of value to our lives. The teachers who teach us and make us realize our purpose in life also become our family and their taught values are truly irreplaceable..
Now even when joint family systems are no longer seen an d more nuclear families are being created, the importance of teaching and practising good values will always remain intact..
Even in a family of four, if love, joy, an d togetherness are valued then that will be passed on along generations..
We must remember that even if the worl d is against us, it is our family that will support us and lead us to new heights of understanding of ourselves..
If we falter, the values we learne d from our family must be taught a way to admit, apologize, and actually show changed behaviour..
Family is something that will be boun d to us always and we must respect that whether we live far or near. And one is never alone in the world because of family..